Day 10: Vibe Tribe Certified
Keeping good company is something that virtually every successful person will tell you that you need to do. Seems simple right, well maybe not. Human beings are social creatures and at times the thought of being alone is too terrifying for some. So much so, we keep people around that may be enabling or holding us back in a myriad of ways. Remember, sometimes friendships can be more toxic that romantic relationships. Take some time to think about the company you keep. Look at how your personalities, goals, and energies line up. Think about the trajectory of your growth and theirs in a non-judgemental way. The goal isn’t to look at others from a degrading perspective but to honestly look at the relationship to decide if it’s still beneficial for both parties to stay connected.
Take the time to ask yourself some basic questions:
- Are they supportive?
- Do I feel that I can be genuinely open with this person?
- Does this person try to understand me?
- Do I feel drained or energized more often than not when we interact?
- Are we on similar paths?
- At our core do we value similar things?
When we look at our relationships from a spiritual or energetic standpoint, we are able to see beyond trivial surface differences and touch the core of the connection. Sometimes the core becomes stronger and other times we’re not so fortunate. Savor the moments your bonds create without attachment to the individual person. This may seem harsh on the surface but it allows others and yourself space and freedom to change and grow.
May we all connect with souls who support and nurture our highest selves and allow us to do the same. So shall it be!
Love & Light